Break up with her boyfriend, but loathe to give up, how to do?

　　We together for nearly two years, but it from starting to now has been a long distance relationship! In the beginning, he was in the army, later to want to do some small business in yunnan, I have been to college, I think he doesn't care about me, bad for me, and have been long distance, can't stand it put forward the break up, he began to agree that later through the snowy mountains came back to say that our relationship to have a rest, I admit I loathe to give up him, crying countless times, no resistance to him, but don't want to have been dragged is irresponsible to each other, do agghh ah? (we didn't split leg, his heart also I was the only one)

　　Psychological consultant analysis

　　"We didn't split leg, he was also just one", has shown that your emotion between firm and confidence, I believe that is this confidence that you can in two years of long-distance relationships until now. But also can feel your worry and anxiety in this period of love, the original of the distance between two people don't have much influence to each other, but with the development of the emotion we need more close to each other.

　　Two years of long-distance relationships, let you are accustomed to the distance between each other. But now need to be stronger, I believe you are adapt to the distance. However, in the process of adaptation will appear a lot of different feelings, maybe there are a lot of disappointment and stress. "His heart also only I a" "I think he doesn't care about me, bad for me" -- and so I believe your heart ambivalent, love or not love? Insist on or give up? Approached or leave? - take this contradiction is to increase the burden of a lot of this period of emotion and stress, if in the feelings of the rest period can really face inside this kind of contradiction and anxiety, to perceive what is between your affected this fear and doubt? I believe you will have more confidence for close to each other.

　　In the case of the marriage emotional psychological counseling, there are a lot of couples because not adapt to the distance between each other. Distance produce beauty, this sentence is right, but in the process of emotional development, shorten the distance between each other is the only way.